Written by Elle
THE BEST
1) The slow pace of life: I cannot express just how much I love this aspect of Spanish culture. It suits my tendencies perfectly, as I often felt that I was playing catch-up in the U.S.; running from work, to the gym, to the store, and negotiating the many to-do lists that occupied my desk, fridge, and the back of my hand. The clock ruled all, and we were slaves to her tick-tock reminder not to be a minute late, even if you have to go 10 over the speed limit to make that 1:45 appointment.
Here in Spain, it feels more relaxed. Like I can just breathe and take my time. I don’t constantly check the clock here (in fact, our apartment has exactly zero clocks in it! Though I do of course check my phone). Granted, I know that I only work 12 hours a week, but with the extra private lessons I’ve picked up, and my Spanish classes, I do have a fairly full Mon-Thurs by Spanish standards. However, I never feel overwhelmed. This is not only due to my three-day weekends, but the collective ideology here that “it can wait”. We get things done here, don’t get me wrong, but if you arrive 15 minutes late to lunch because you took the long way there through the park to see the changing leaves, or let the coffee date go an extra hour, no one bats an eye or thinks of it negatively. Happiness and leisure rule here—and I’m a big fan.
In addition to this being the cleanest city I’ve ever spent time in, there is also constant restoration happening throughout every neighborhood to keep things looking and working well while maintaining the old European look that we love so much. Whether it’s renovating a store front, to fixing that one cracked brick in the sidewalk, there are always projects going on that keep this place looking tip-top!
Reason #2: It offers me the privilege to learn a new language in a setting that is truly authentic. La Rioja is home to the oldest written evidence of the Spanish language, and the two monasteries in the mountains where the manuscripts were found now serve as a European Heritage Sites, which we hope to visit soon! Because La Rioja is considered to be the “cradle of the Spanish language”, it is believed by many Spaniards that the Spanish here is some of the most traditional and easy to understand. Though the variances and dialects of Spanish in Galicia, Andalucía, and other regions are unique and beautiful, I am happy to be learning the language here.
Reason #3: Spaniards here are very reluctant to use English (whether it is due to a lack of confidence or them truly not knowing the language), which forces me to use Spanish in almost every encounter. Though I muddle through and I’m sure make a complete fool of myself, I know this is the best way to learn, and I’m determined to keep learning and trying every day!
And when we’re not eating at home, we go out for pinchos! In most of Spain, these are called “tapas”, but here they are “pinchos” (from the Basque word pintxos), and they are the most popular foods at the dozens of restaurants that we so luckily have just minutes from our door. Everything from meat skewers, to calamari sandwiches, to cheese croquettes, to roasted peppers are on display for these perfect small bites on a night out. It’s typical to visit 3-4 different pincho bars and grab a bite and a glass of wine from each as you make your way down the street. Our current favorite pincho is a tower of mushrooms on top of a piece of bread with a small shrimp on top, doused in garlic butter.
In addition to the many pincho bars, there are countless fancy restaurants here, and a big gastronomic culture that even landed La Rioja the title of ‘Spanish Capital of Gastronomy’ in 2012. (We have a lot more eating to do!)
As for the wine…YUM. I can safely say I am farrrr from a wine connoisseur. I just know what I like and what I don’t like! And I can honestly tell you that every wine I have tried, from 2€ bottles to 10€ bottles (yes, that’s the most I’ve spent on a bottle here) has been delicious! Vino tinto (red wine) has been my go-to drink here, and you can’t blame me when you can go out and get a glass for 0.80¢! The region here is known for wine, and I am all for it.
1) The food: Wait, you put food in the “best” category! Well, hear me out. The food here is truly delicious, and I love a night out of pinchos, but there are some major holes in the food culture here that I really miss from the States!
First of all, there are very few types of cuisine here. It’s almost exclusively Spanish restaurants here, with a few Italian mixed in. I long for good Mexican, sushi, and especially Thai food places. While Spanish food can be delightful, it is very heavy on carbs and meat, and as a “mostly vegetarian”, I find myself eating a lot of bread and potatoes when I go out!
There is also the issue of “spice”. I am hardly one who can handle a lot of spicy foods, but even I miss that kick from my pad thai or street taco. B has tried ordering things on menus that say “picante” (spicy), and has even been warned by waiters before ordering (¡Este es muy picante!), but we have yet to really get any heat on the food. Thankfully, we found one store with off-brand sriracha, which has been doused on many dishes we make here at home!
2) The smoking: Ugh. This is by far my least favorite thing about living here. Smoking is quite popular here, as it is in many European countries compared to the U.S. where it’s decline has been drastic in my lifetime. Though you cannot smoke cigarettes indoors (thank goodness), you can smoke them right outside the door, on the street, on the park path as I run by you, or sitting next to me at the outdoor cafe. Nothing ruins a perfect coffee date like a group of four plopping down at the table next to you and puffing out in your direction. I will count my blessings, however, that none of my neighbors smoke on their balconies, so we can safely open out windows and breathe the good stuff.
Andddd that’s all I have for “the worst”! As you can tell by the lengthy “the best” portion of this post, life here is Spain is everything we wanted and more. I can’t wait to see what more I can add to that list!